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Women Are Less Interested in Sex Than Men
On average, women are less interested in sex than men. This is a consistent finding in psychology. Women express lower sexual desire, want fewer lifetime sex partners, and are less open to casual sex compared to men. The reason for this gender difference in sexuality constitutes one of the great debates in psychology. Nature Versus…
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What’s a Pillow Princess?
When you hear “pillow princess” you might be thinking that this girl is living a life of luxury. And you’re right. If you’re a pillow princess, it’s a cushy ride. However, it’s also likely that no one wants to have sex with you. So what, exactly, is a pillow princess? If you think a pillow…
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Waiting for Sex
Waiting for sex is a big deal for some, but not so much so for others. And you are 100% entitled to your opinions and feelings. As long as you’re being safe, you do you. Many people wonder how long you should be waiting for sex and it’s a long-debated subject. The truth? It’s a…
Vaxxed and Waxed
Although vaxxed and waxed it has been a long lockdown on love for Emma Sykora. But as temperatures climb and more Canadians roll up their sleeves for the first dose of the COVID-19 vaccine, Sykora is starting to think she has a shot at something special this summer. The 33-year-old in Toronto became single near…
Types of Romantic Relationships
Five types of romantic relationships serve to categorize most romantic unions. When you look back at your relationship history, you may have what feels like a wide range of different experiences. Some romances are short. Some are boring. Some are defined by strong attraction and big conflicts. Some are warm and stable. All of these…
To Please A Woman
You might have heard the saying “happy wife, happy life,” but it’s actually far more than that. For sure, if the lady in your life is happy, everything is easier. But, you need to make sure that your needs are also being met. Relationships are two-way deals and without both partners being happy with what’s…
The Most Powerful Sex Organ
Here’s why the brain is the most powerful sex organ. Chemicals and your brain One of the last things you’re thinking about during sex is probably chemicals and your brain—but they’re more involved than you think. Studies and MRIs suggest there are many remote areas of the brain that are active before, during, and after…
The First On-Stream Bob’r: Jennifer Mosely
Would this have happened today, in the present climate of political correctness, the on-going debate on consent, third or fourth wave feminism, et cetera, Terry Hall, I, and our cabal of cohorts would all have been imprisoned for turning out the first on-stream bob’r. Truth be told: consent to exploit was never given; or, was…
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The Female Orgasm
The female orgasm feels amazing. We all know that. Orgasms are the pinnacle of sensation if you’re lucky enough to have one. That much we also know. But, why do orgasms feel so good? What is it about them that makes our whole body feel full of bliss and pleasure? It seems pretty simple to…
The Deepest Form of Love
Many women find sex to be the deepest form of love and connection, and many women are very sexually oriented. While his orgasm may be quicker, hers is often more powerful and her incredible capacity for pleasure could include multiple orgasms. But the ways that women experience and express their sexuality are often very different…
The Cuckold Fantasy
Sex is an ever-changing subject and the cuckold fantasy is big right now. It seems that every month there’s a new term we have to learn the meaning of! This can only be a good thing, because it means we’re all becoming more open and adventurous when it comes to exploring our kinks and fantasies….
Swallowing Cum
Maybe you’re a spitter who wants to transition to the swallowing club, or maybe you just want to learn how to do it right, well, this is how to swallow cum without gagging or feeling like throwing up. My very first experience with swallowing cum I don’t want to scare you, but I just want…
Start Enjoying Sex Again
If it seems that you are more like roommates than lovers you can start enjoying sex again simply by following some easy steps. When you are married or coupled, over time it is easy for the relationship to become one of utility instead of sensuality, magic and love. Each person has their part in the…
Some Swinging Guidelines
Although the majority of swinging will end up involving lovemaking and getting frisky with each other’s partners, some swinging guidelines suggest that it isn’t all about fresh flesh. Swinging is about building up the atmosphere of warmth and belonging. Whether you are at a party with another couple or with another person for a threesome,…
Simple Smart Seduction Schemes
Simple smart seduction schemes explained. Although “Just grab ’em by the pussy” seems to be a favorite phrase uttered by Donald J. Trump, this is profoundly bad advice. Not only is this tactic crude and cruel, it is also dangerous. Furthermore, given the current state of required politically correct behavior, this act is also illegal….
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Signs, Signifiers, and the Spectacle
The French school of mid twentieth-century philosophy drew particular attention to signs, signifiers, and the spectacle. Begun a few years after the widespread acceptance of Freudian theory the writings of Jacques Lacan (Écrits), philosophy and psychology melded in some very enlightening ways. Of course this movement was precipitated by the invention of the television which…
Signs of the Coming Split
In the year before I split up with my ex-partner, several things changed. I started to spend more time with new friends, stay out later on weekends and began treating myself to fancy pedicures on a bi-weekly basis. Most importantly, I stopped writing about my then-partner. Our relationship was already on the rocks and I…
Should I Try Polyamory?
I had been wandering the liquor store for some minutes when the clerk approached and asked if I needed help. I considered blurting out loudly, “Should I try polyamory?”. “Hello,” I would say. “I’m wine shopping for dinner with my boyfriend and his two partners, whom I’ll be meeting for the first time. You wouldn’t…
Sexual Edging
Not being able to orgasm, or finding it difficult, is something many women relate to. Women take longer to get off and quite frankly, some people just don’t know what to do to get them there. But the newest buzzphrase in women’s orgasms is something that can help us all: sexual edging. But what is…
Sex With a Narcissist
Sex with a narcissist enlightened me. It’s far too easy to throw around labels these days for any little problem. For instance, we are quick to label men as narcissists when they show a little selfishness. The problem? Narcissism isn’t something to joke about. It’s not a word to call someone just because they don’t…
Sex and Poetry as Synonyms
Since antiquity sex and sexuality have enjoyed a symbiotic relationship with poetry leading to sex and poetry as synonyms. Poetry falls into genres and categories defined by a range of schools, styles and forms. Looking into one of the more modern schools, the L-A-N-G-U-A-G-E school, a school which came to prominence at the close of…
Rob Lowe’s wife Sheryl taught Gwyneth Paltrow to perform ‘Oral’
Rob Lowe’s wife Sheryl taught Gwyneth Paltrow to perform ‘Oral’ sex when Gwyneth was 18 and Sheryl was doing makeup on a Blythe Danner film. The ‘St Elmo’s Fire’ star joked – while making an appearance on ‘Jimmy Kimmel Live’ – about the revelation the 48-year-old Academy Award winner made about his 60-year-old wife, Sheryl…
Revenge Follows Restraint
Precisely at five minutes after seven each and every Friday evening, Mrs. Janet Wright was tied naked to a polished glass kitchen chair; this weekly ritual was adroitly, dutifully and perfectly performed by her husband Duncan. On Sunday morning Duncan freed her to fix breakfast. His mania, this ritualistic binding of his wife, was the…
Rape & Predators Can Be Subtle
Everyone thinks having low self-esteem is a bad thing but I actually think it can be really helpful, say in the case of warding off child predators. Even they couldn’t believe how low my self-esteem was. They’re like “Girl, you’re beautiful” and I’m like “Now I know for sure you’re a fucking liar cuz even…
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Prepare for Sex
Whether it’s the first time you ever have sex, the first time with someone new, or the millionth time, learning how to prepare for sex in the right way gets you in the best frame of mind. At the end of the day, sex is supposed to be enjoyed. Sure, it’s nice to be spontaneous…
Practicing Ethical Non-Monogamy (2)
Ethical non-monogamy vs. Polyamory. Polyamory is one form of practicing ethical non-monogamy, which is an umbrella term that encompasses many other types of relationships. Swinging, casual sex, open relationships, and polyamory are all forms of ethical non-monogamy, and there are many others. Polyamory refers to having multiple romantic partners at once, which not all ethically…
Practicing Ethical Non-Monogamy (1)
There are two ways of practicing non-monogamy: the nonconsensual kind, which is also known as cheating, and the consensual kind, which is known as consensual or ethical non-monogamy. This latter kind has risen in popularity dramatically in recent years. One 2017 study found 1 in 5 people has been in some form of ethically non-monogamous relationship before. Here’s what this type…
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Penis Facts
Before we talk about penis facts, let’s talk about our bodies for a minute. Human bodies – weird, right? They’re designed to do amazing things and yet despite that, sometimes they still malfunction. From the beating heart to the amazing human brain, we surprise ourselves every day and don’t even realize it. For instance, have…
Parsing “Passes” and “Pings”
In order to survive and thrive normally, humans need nourishment (food and drink), sleep, sexual release, and social interaction. Take away a certain measure of any one of these (Humans can and do manage without shelter.) and the result is a damaged or flawed human. Sexual behavior is revealed by parsing passes and pings. No…
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Pandemic Sex Toys
You’d be forgiven for thinking everyone was using pandemic sex toys to masturbate more during the pandemic. Adult content subscription service OnlyFans went mainstream, and celebrities such as Gwyneth Paltrow, Dakota Johnson, Lily Allen and Cara Delevingne made stigma-breaking moves when they released their own sex toys (Goop) or partnered with existing companies (Maude, Womanizer…
Open Relationship Newbies
While it’s very exciting that you and your significant other have agreed that you want to start as open relationship newbies, it can also be pretty intimidating, and the stakes are high. That’s why we spoke to some experts about how to best go about opening your relationship up for the first time. For starters,…
Non-Monogamy: Multiple Sexual Partners
The concept of having multiple sexual partners is nothing new to humanity—just ask the Ancient Greeks who enjoyed notoriously glorious sex lives and “had a desire for anyone and anything.” But when it comes to modern romance, navigating life beyond monogamy can be tricky. This is partly because monogamy in of itself is pretty straightforward:…
Non-monogamy
Non-monogamy is an umbrella term that covers a wide range of non-traditional relationship styles – all the way from “monogamish” to polyamory, relationship anarchy and everything in between. It isn’t superior to monogamy, or necessarily practiced by people who are more enlightened or well-rounded. It’s just a different way of approaching love and romance, that…
My Former Affair Partner
Was I wrong to use my former affair partner as a yardstick? At the time of this post, I’ve been on 57 first dates. Some of the guys I met for second and third dates. Some I dated for several months. With a few, we parted as friends, but over time the relationships dwindled. Needless…
Men Make Mistakes
1. Men make mistakes by not being honest about needs: “Be honest with yourself as to what you like and need, because men make mistakes. Was with a guy who NEEDED to finish by hand, but desperately didn’t want it to be that way. He would just keep going until it started to hurt me,…
Male Orgasms
Male orgasms are just as mysterious as female orgasms were to us not too long ago. Even now, we don’t know everything there is to know about the female orgasm, but we’ve come a long way. The same can be said of the male orgasm. So what is a male orgasm? What do male orgasms…
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Making a Woman Feel Special
They say the key to a man’s heart is through his stomach but for women, it’s through Making a Woman Feel Special – making HER, the one, feel special. That’s really the main thing you have to remember with girls. If you want her to like you, make her feel unique and special to you…
Make Your Guy Cum Fast
So, you’re wondering how to make your guy cum fast. Though most of us wish we had all day to lay in bed with our lover, that’s typically not the case. Most of us are going to school or have jobs, and long days in bed end up being reserved for the weekends. What can…
Love Triangles
Love triangles are complicated dating scenarios where there’s love in the air, but there are more than two people secretly involved. When love is mutual and shared between two people, everything is perfect, simple, and easy. BUT …. Have you ever been in love with someone who’s already in love with someone else? Or are…
Lessons from Open Relationship
Whenever I hear someone openly admit they are in an open relationship or marriage, they are met with accusations of cheating or not being in a “real” relationship. Their relationships are not taken seriously, and sometimes even laughed or scoffed at. But actually, open and poly relationships can be some of the healthiest and most…
Having Casual Anonymous Sex
Those who prefer casual anonymous sex to repeated-partner play have likely, at some point in their sexual journey, contended with the wrath of slut-shaming culture. But for some, the preference for emotion-free sex is more than a celebration of sexuality and bodily autonomy; it’s a sexual orientation. Behold: fraysexuality. “’Fraysexual’ is a term that describes…
Girls Tribbing
Girls tribbing is the new 21st century word meaning tribadism. Ah yes, the ancient art of tribadism: girls scissoring and girls tribbing. Okay, it’s not an ancient art, we don’t know when it was invented, but it’s definitely not a myth. Understanding how to scissor a girl is essential to girl-on-girl sex know-hows. First, let’s…
Getting a Guy to Kiss You
Picture the scene – you’ve been on a few dates with a guy and everything is great. You really like him and you think he likes you too. But, nothing else is happening besides flirting. You want him to kiss you but he doesn’t seem to be able to pluck up the courage to do…
Get frisky for Christmas
Let’s all get frisky for Christmas. The temperature has dropped and Mariah Carey songs are appearing with alarming frequency. It’s safe to say that the holiday season has arrived. If you’re considering getting a last minute gift for someone special, ‘tis the season to get frisky. I said it before and I’ll say it again:…
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Gestalt Reveals the Mind
Dictionary Definition of gestalt: an organized whole that is perceived as more than the sum of its parts. Gestalt reveals the mind. Though the dictionary definition may confuse about how this works with sexual tension this approach will become crystal clear if we look to some examples. Two people are on a first date, say,…
Genophobia: A Fear of Sex
Some people have a fear that’s been present as long as they can remember, from childhood onwards. Yet for some, a fear can develop over time, or perhaps simply crash into life and make itself very well known. Fears can be irrational, reasonable, or they can be things that we don’t really understand but know…
