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Women Are Less Interested in Sex Than Men
On average, women are less interested in sex than men. This is a consistent finding in psychology. Women express lower sexual desire, want fewer lifetime sex partners, and are less open to casual sex compared to men. The reason for this gender difference in sexuality constitutes one of the great debates in psychology. Nature Versus…
Why Wives Cheat
Let’s talk about why wives cheat. We’ve all seen people cheating on social media and heard the gossip around the neighborhood — the stereotypical cheating husband, philandering with other women, while the emotionally neglected wife cries at home. Well, what happens when these roles are reversed? Is there a reason why some wives cheat on…
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What’s a Pillow Princess?
When you hear “pillow princess” you might be thinking that this girl is living a life of luxury. And you’re right. If you’re a pillow princess, it’s a cushy ride. However, it’s also likely that no one wants to have sex with you. So what, exactly, is a pillow princess? If you think a pillow…
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Waiting for Sex
Waiting for sex is a big deal for some, but not so much so for others. And you are 100% entitled to your opinions and feelings. As long as you’re being safe, you do you. Many people wonder how long you should be waiting for sex and it’s a long-debated subject. The truth? It’s a…
Virgin Confession
My virgin confession hurts. I’m A 32-Year-Old Female Virgin (but not by choice). How I ended up in this condition – alone. Missing out. A 32-year-old virgin. By accident. No grand pacts with deities were made. No overly sentimental illusions of saving myself for that one special person who would sweep me off my feet…
Vaxxed and Waxed
Although vaxxed and waxed it has been a long lockdown on love for Emma Sykora. But as temperatures climb and more Canadians roll up their sleeves for the first dose of the COVID-19 vaccine, Sykora is starting to think she has a shot at something special this summer. The 33-year-old in Toronto became single near…
Unhappy Marriage
People stay in an unhappy marriage for a lot of reasons. You may be in one yourself. But when an unhappy marriage leads to cheating and infidelity, it’s time to lift the veil of denial and take a good hard look at what’s going on. It’s important to understand why people cheat before learning how…
Types of Romantic Relationships
Five types of romantic relationships serve to categorize most romantic unions. When you look back at your relationship history, you may have what feels like a wide range of different experiences. Some romances are short. Some are boring. Some are defined by strong attraction and big conflicts. Some are warm and stable. All of these…
Two Hole Girl
This is how I became a two hole girl. As our readers know, Bob and I are both very open-minded and sexually edgy. We have many eclectic and very diverse friends. Our friend Ed is gay, married to Maureen, a woman, and they have two young sons. The only person amongst us four who doesn’t…
To Please A Woman
You might have heard the saying “happy wife, happy life,” but it’s actually far more than that. For sure, if the lady in your life is happy, everything is easier. But, you need to make sure that your needs are also being met. Relationships are two-way deals and without both partners being happy with what’s…
The Most Powerful Sex Organ
Here’s why the brain is the most powerful sex organ. Chemicals and your brain One of the last things you’re thinking about during sex is probably chemicals and your brain—but they’re more involved than you think. Studies and MRIs suggest there are many remote areas of the brain that are active before, during, and after…
The First On-Stream Bob’r: Jennifer Mosely
Would this have happened today, in the present climate of political correctness, the on-going debate on consent, third or fourth wave feminism, et cetera, Terry Hall, I, and our cabal of cohorts would all have been imprisoned for turning out the first on-stream bob’r. Truth be told: consent to exploit was never given; or, was…
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The Female Orgasm
The female orgasm feels amazing. We all know that. Orgasms are the pinnacle of sensation if you’re lucky enough to have one. That much we also know. But, why do orgasms feel so good? What is it about them that makes our whole body feel full of bliss and pleasure? It seems pretty simple to…
The Deepest Form of Love
Many women find sex to be the deepest form of love and connection, and many women are very sexually oriented. While his orgasm may be quicker, hers is often more powerful and her incredible capacity for pleasure could include multiple orgasms. But the ways that women experience and express their sexuality are often very different…
The Cuckold Fantasy
Sex is an ever-changing subject and the cuckold fantasy is big right now. It seems that every month there’s a new term we have to learn the meaning of! This can only be a good thing, because it means we’re all becoming more open and adventurous when it comes to exploring our kinks and fantasies….
Teenage Sexual Intercourse
High school students are having less sexual intercourse. That’s what the studies say. But that doesn’t mean they’re having less sex. The language of young love and lust, and the actions behind it, are evolving. And the shift is not being adequately captured in national studies, experts say. For years, studies have shown a decline…
Swallowing Cum
Maybe you’re a spitter who wants to transition to the swallowing club, or maybe you just want to learn how to do it right, well, this is how to swallow cum without gagging or feeling like throwing up. My very first experience with swallowing cum I don’t want to scare you, but I just want…
Strap-On Story
My strap-on story. My husband and I have been married for more than 25 years and have had what I consider a great marriage overall. Couple of kids, a couple of cats, a house, etc. Nothing out of the ordinary. And that (nothing out of the ordinary) largely describes our sex life too. It’s been…
Strange Ways to Pick Up Men
If you want to learn how to flirt with a guy or pick up men with self-confidence, you may want to think outside the box. The thought of picking up a total stranger can cause sheer panic among some people. Having someone reject you is never fun, but if you have your eye on someone,…
Start Enjoying Sex Again
If it seems that you are more like roommates than lovers you can start enjoying sex again simply by following some easy steps. When you are married or coupled, over time it is easy for the relationship to become one of utility instead of sensuality, magic and love. Each person has their part in the…
Spontaneous Sex
Perhaps your sex life is lacking spontaneous sex. Sex is great, we can all agree with that. And if you don’t, then you’re not having the right kind of sex. While planning your sex life may be the most realistic option for many of you out there, it’s even better when it’s spontaneous sex. When…
Some Swinging Guidelines
Although the majority of swinging will end up involving lovemaking and getting frisky with each other’s partners, some swinging guidelines suggest that it isn’t all about fresh flesh. Swinging is about building up the atmosphere of warmth and belonging. Whether you are at a party with another couple or with another person for a threesome,…
Simple Smart Seduction Schemes
Simple smart seduction schemes explained. Although “Just grab ’em by the pussy” seems to be a favorite phrase uttered by Donald J. Trump, this is profoundly bad advice. Not only is this tactic crude and cruel, it is also dangerous. Furthermore, given the current state of required politically correct behavior, this act is also illegal….
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Signs, Signifiers, and the Spectacle
The French school of mid twentieth-century philosophy drew particular attention to signs, signifiers, and the spectacle. Begun a few years after the widespread acceptance of Freudian theory the writings of Jacques Lacan (Écrits), philosophy and psychology melded in some very enlightening ways. Of course this movement was precipitated by the invention of the television which…
Signs of the Coming Split
In the year before I split up with my ex-partner, several things changed. I started to spend more time with new friends, stay out later on weekends and began treating myself to fancy pedicures on a bi-weekly basis. Most importantly, I stopped writing about my then-partner. Our relationship was already on the rocks and I…
Should I Try Polyamory?
I had been wandering the liquor store for some minutes when the clerk approached and asked if I needed help. I considered blurting out loudly, “Should I try polyamory?”. “Hello,” I would say. “I’m wine shopping for dinner with my boyfriend and his two partners, whom I’ll be meeting for the first time. You wouldn’t…
Shere Hite
A new documentary tells the story of the groundbreaking feminist sex researcher, Shere Hite. In September 2020, astute readers of The New York Times would have come across the obituary of Shere Hite, the feminist sex researcher. For two readers in particular, the obit sparked questions. One was director Nicole Newnham, who remembers discovering and…
Sexy Spanking
Try sexy spanking if you feel bored in the bedroom? Have you had sex with your partner in every nook and cranny of your house? If you feel like your sex life needs some excitement, you might try sexy spanking? For some, a little playful spanking is enough to take the sexual tension and excitement…
Sexual Edging
Not being able to orgasm, or finding it difficult, is something many women relate to. Women take longer to get off and quite frankly, some people just don’t know what to do to get them there. But the newest buzzphrase in women’s orgasms is something that can help us all: sexual edging. But what is…
Sexless Marriage
What if your partner isn’t interested in sex with you? Or what if you are the one who wants to say no? What if you find yourself in a sexless marriage? According to Dr. David Schnarch, author of “Intimacy & Desire”, all couples have an “LDP” (low desire partner) and an “HDP” (high desire partner)….
Sex with Socks On
Here is our case for sex with socks on. We’re all for getting 100% naked and having a good time with someone you like. But if there’s a way to make the sex better by keeping just one article of clothing on, then we’d definitely refuse to take it off. This just so happens to…
Sex With a Narcissist
Sex with a narcissist enlightened me. It’s far too easy to throw around labels these days for any little problem. For instance, we are quick to label men as narcissists when they show a little selfishness. The problem? Narcissism isn’t something to joke about. It’s not a word to call someone just because they don’t…
Sex and Poetry as Synonyms
Since antiquity sex and sexuality have enjoyed a symbiotic relationship with poetry leading to sex and poetry as synonyms. Poetry falls into genres and categories defined by a range of schools, styles and forms. Looking into one of the more modern schools, the L-A-N-G-U-A-G-E school, a school which came to prominence at the close of…
Rob Lowe’s wife Sheryl taught Gwyneth Paltrow to perform ‘Oral’
Rob Lowe’s wife Sheryl taught Gwyneth Paltrow to perform ‘Oral’ sex when Gwyneth was 18 and Sheryl was doing makeup on a Blythe Danner film. The ‘St Elmo’s Fire’ star joked – while making an appearance on ‘Jimmy Kimmel Live’ – about the revelation the 48-year-old Academy Award winner made about his 60-year-old wife, Sheryl…
Revenge Follows Restraint
Precisely at five minutes after seven each and every Friday evening, Mrs. Janet Wright was tied naked to a polished glass kitchen chair; this weekly ritual was adroitly, dutifully and perfectly performed by her husband Duncan. On Sunday morning Duncan freed her to fix breakfast. His mania, this ritualistic binding of his wife, was the…
Rape & Predators Can Be Subtle
Everyone thinks having low self-esteem is a bad thing but I actually think it can be really helpful, say in the case of warding off child predators. Even they couldn’t believe how low my self-esteem was. They’re like “Girl, you’re beautiful” and I’m like “Now I know for sure you’re a fucking liar cuz even…
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Prepare for Sex
Whether it’s the first time you ever have sex, the first time with someone new, or the millionth time, learning how to prepare for sex in the right way gets you in the best frame of mind. At the end of the day, sex is supposed to be enjoyed. Sure, it’s nice to be spontaneous…
Practicing Ethical Non-Monogamy (2)
Ethical non-monogamy vs. Polyamory. Polyamory is one form of practicing ethical non-monogamy, which is an umbrella term that encompasses many other types of relationships. Swinging, casual sex, open relationships, and polyamory are all forms of ethical non-monogamy, and there are many others. Polyamory refers to having multiple romantic partners at once, which not all ethically…
Practicing Ethical Non-Monogamy (1)
There are two ways of practicing non-monogamy: the nonconsensual kind, which is also known as cheating, and the consensual kind, which is known as consensual or ethical non-monogamy. This latter kind has risen in popularity dramatically in recent years. One 2017 study found 1 in 5 people has been in some form of ethically non-monogamous relationship before. Here’s what this type…
Polyamory Reasoning
Polyamory refers to the desire for and the practice of engaging in consensual, non-monogamous romantic or sexual relationships with multiple partners. A recent paper by Hnatkovicova and Bianchi suggests there are eight motivations for polyamory. These include psychodynamic motivations, the satisfaction of needs not met in a monogamous romantic relationship, and the fulfillment of needs…
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Penis Facts
Before we talk about penis facts, let’s talk about our bodies for a minute. Human bodies – weird, right? They’re designed to do amazing things and yet despite that, sometimes they still malfunction. From the beating heart to the amazing human brain, we surprise ourselves every day and don’t even realize it. For instance, have…
Parsing “Passes” and “Pings”
In order to survive and thrive normally, humans need nourishment (food and drink), sleep, sexual release, and social interaction. Take away a certain measure of any one of these (Humans can and do manage without shelter.) and the result is a damaged or flawed human. Sexual behavior is revealed by parsing passes and pings. No…
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Pandemic Sex Toys
You’d be forgiven for thinking everyone was using pandemic sex toys to masturbate more during the pandemic. Adult content subscription service OnlyFans went mainstream, and celebrities such as Gwyneth Paltrow, Dakota Johnson, Lily Allen and Cara Delevingne made stigma-breaking moves when they released their own sex toys (Goop) or partnered with existing companies (Maude, Womanizer…
Orgasm Without Touch
A California woman has acquired a new “superpower” by learning to orgasm “without touch.” Catalina Lawsin, 46, made the raunchy revelation in an interview with South West News Service last week, saying practicing tantra several times a week has helped her harness the contactless kink. The sex therapist based in tony Santa Monica claimed climaxes…
Oral Sex Danger
Oral sex may be the biggest factor in the rise of throat cancer in the United States. Dr. Hisham Mehanna — a professor at the Institute of Cancer and Genomic Sciences at the University of Birmingham — said that there has been a “rapid increase” in oropharyngeal cancer, a type of throat cancer, in the…
Open Relationships
Open Relationships: Various Thoughts by Insiders 1. “My girlfriend and I are non-monogamous. I wish people understood that non-monogamy isn’t something people do because they don’t ‘love their partner enough.’ We chose to have this aspect to our relationship because we’re both people who tend to have feelings for more than one person at a…
