Blog posts dealing with history
Waiting for sex is a big deal for some, but not so much so for others. And you are 100% entitled to your opinions and feelings. As long as you’re being safe, you do you. Many people wonder how long you should be waiting for sex and it’s a long-debated subject. The truth? It’s a…
Would this have happened today, in the present climate of political correctness, the on-going debate on consent, third or fourth wave feminism, et cetera, Terry Hall, I, and our cabal of cohorts would all have been imprisoned for turning out the first on-stream bob’r. Truth be told: consent to exploit was never given; or, was…
The female orgasm feels amazing. We all know that. Orgasms are the pinnacle of sensation if you’re lucky enough to have one. That much we also know. But, why do orgasms feel so good? What is it about them that makes our whole body feel full of bliss and pleasure? It seems pretty simple to…
Simple smart seduction schemes explained. Although “Just grab ’em by the pussy” seems to be a favorite phrase uttered by Donald J. Trump, this is profoundly bad advice. Not only is this tactic crude and cruel, it is also dangerous. Furthermore, given the current state of required politically correct behavior, this act is also illegal….
The French school of mid twentieth-century philosophy drew particular attention to signs, signifiers, and the spectacle. Begun a few years after the widespread acceptance of Freudian theory the writings of Jacques Lacan (Écrits), philosophy and psychology melded in some very enlightening ways. Of course this movement was precipitated by the invention of the television which…
Sex with a narcissist enlightened me. It’s far too easy to throw around labels these days for any little problem. For instance, we are quick to label men as narcissists when they show a little selfishness. The problem? Narcissism isn’t something to joke about. It’s not a word to call someone just because they don’t…
Both Vicki and I could see the longing in her eyes. Susan needed dick. Susan was and had been the all and everything, the world, to a four year old, and a nine-month old for too long. Needing some respite, some wild fun, Susan required an injection of strange dick, badly. That very evening we…
Digging into royal scandals tells us that long before Andrew Parker- Bowles tied the knot with Camilla (now the Queen Consort), Andrew had shared a brief romance with Princess Anne, King Charles’ sister. Princess Anne allegedly had a relationship with the ex-husband of Camilla, Andrew Parker-Bowles, according to a royal author. Before Andrew tied the…
Soon after arriving in Toronto as immigrants from Belgium in the early 1990s, a married Israeli couple, Shlomo and Aurora Benzion, set up a small lingerie shop in a trendy shopping area of Toronto. My swingers club diary reveals that after more than one naughty private talk with select female customers who were purchasing intimate…
Everyone thinks having low self-esteem is a bad thing but I actually think it can be really helpful, say in the case of warding off child predators. Even they couldn’t believe how low my self-esteem was. They’re like “Girl, you’re beautiful” and I’m like “Now I know for sure you’re a fucking liar cuz even…
In order to survive and thrive normally, humans need nourishment (food and drink), sleep, sexual release, and social interaction. Take away a certain measure of any one of these (Humans can and do manage without shelter.) and the result is a damaged or flawed human. Sexual behavior is revealed by parsing passes and pings. No…
Thirty or so years had passed when Jan started waking up in the middle of the night trying to control the incessant shaking from her core as she tried to sleep. Initially she did not realize it but by the end of the first week, Jan’s middle of the night episodes would reveal a motive….
Megan Markle’s orgasms are thunderous toe-curling events. That’s why a significant number of the stiff-upper-lip royals, especially the women, don’t like her. In my view, although those ‘pesky’ orgasms, Meghan Markle’s orgasms, are satisfying to her and relished by Prince Harry, those “little deaths” are scorned by the royal family: thus, Meghan is equally scorned….
Alfred Kinsey’s sexual scale, his imprint on the world of sexuality, has — and continues to — inspire criticism, fascination, even outrage. It’s a captivating legacy for a man who spent the first half of his career studying the gall wasp. Depending whom you ask, Kinsey — the creator of the Kinsey Scale of sexual…
Dictionary Definition of gestalt: an organized whole that is perceived as more than the sum of its parts. Gestalt reveals the mind. Though the dictionary definition may confuse about how this works with sexual tension this approach will become crystal clear if we look to some examples. Two people are on a first date, say,…
A Black Widow (BW) is a vicious malicious woman, a special type of grifter. She is a grifter who readily uses her genitalia to execute her agenda (her “vagenda”), always about conning people. That is one reason why the common street prostitute uses the term “trick” to usually discuss or describe her customer. The sex…
Meet Carol. I mean Carmel. Carmel/Carol is a Black Widow. By that, I mean an out-of-control sociopath grifter. A predator. At Bob’s firm Carol stood out, head and shoulders, as the best candidate. He recounts that she demonstrated superior language and communications skills. He remembers that she looked polished and attractive. Apparently the decision arrived…
Let me be brutal and say so directly. Women, especially Black Widows, those who follow Tolstoy’s credo “Vengeance is mine”, are smarter than men. They have always been smarter than men. The simple law of nature invoked to arrive at this conclusion is : balance. Nature can be accused of many crimes, many wonders, and…
Here are 5 brutal truths about being the ‘other woman’ in affairs with married men: 1. Sometimes, people lie to get what they want. Before being ‘the Other Woman’ know that no matter how sincere your married lover seems, you must double-check what you are being told. Don’t discount this distinct and ugly possibility. Find…
Aphrodisiacs can provide a boost if you ever feel like you’re expected to want to have sex on demand? As though you’re supposed to have a high sex drive and be ready to go as soon as someone suggests it? The reality of life is rather different. Stress, tiredness, and simply not being in the…
