People flinch in fear whenever they hear about vaginal fisting. Most consider it controversial, while some even see it as a cultural taboo. The mere sound of the word “fisting” will probably make the most prude of us scream something like, “WHY ON EARTH WOULD YOU WANT ANYBODY TO PUT THEIR WHOLE HAND IN YOU?”…
A California woman has acquired a new “superpower” by learning to orgasm “without touch.” Catalina Lawsin, 46, made the raunchy revelation in an interview with South West News Service last week, saying practicing tantra several times a week has helped her harness the contactless kink. The sex therapist based in tony Santa Monica claimed climaxes…
A new documentary tells the story of the groundbreaking feminist sex researcher, Shere Hite. In September 2020, astute readers of The New York Times would have come across the obituary of Shere Hite, the feminist sex researcher. For two readers in particular, the obit sparked questions. One was director Nicole Newnham, who remembers discovering and…
If you want to know how to make women orgasm fast during sex, this might be the most important article you ever read. You’re about to learn the best sex positions to make female orgasms come faster than you probably ever thought possible. Why does it take so long for some women to have an…
This is how I became a two hole girl. As our readers know, Bob and I are both very open-minded and sexually edgy. We have many eclectic and very diverse friends. Our friend Ed is gay, married to Maureen, a woman, and they have two young sons. The only person amongst us four who doesn’t…
My strap-on story. My husband and I have been married for more than 25 years and have had what I consider a great marriage overall. Couple of kids, a couple of cats, a house, etc. Nothing out of the ordinary. And that (nothing out of the ordinary) largely describes our sex life too. It’s been…
Considering female sex drive, most who are reading this are probably thinking that a high libido is something that only applies to men. However, women can have a high sex drive, too. Actually, women notice when they have a higher sex drive more often than men do because people generally think guys are supposed to…
“What’s the difference between a bar and the clitoris? Most men have no trouble finding a bar.” In the world of humour, the clitoris remains a mystery: supposedly small, and so inevitably difficult to locate. “Which dinosaur will never be discovered? The Clitaurus.” It sometimes seems medical science has been far more interested in the…
Here is our case for sex with socks on. We’re all for getting 100% naked and having a good time with someone you like. But if there’s a way to make the sex better by keeping just one article of clothing on, then we’d definitely refuse to take it off. This just so happens to…
Women like me who have been cheated on, get a shiver of pain down our spines even years after the affair, the betrayal. The lies, the little clues to his infidelity we only ever saw looking back, the suspicion, the gaslighting, the shame, but most of all the self-recrimination. Yes, the eternal questions — how…
On average, women are less interested in sex than men. This is a consistent finding in psychology. Women express lower sexual desire, want fewer lifetime sex partners, and are less open to casual sex compared to men. The reason for this gender difference in sexuality constitutes one of the great debates in psychology. Nature Versus…
Not being able to orgasm, or finding it difficult, is something many women relate to. Women take longer to get off and quite frankly, some people just don’t know what to do to get them there. But the newest buzzphrase in women’s orgasms is something that can help us all: sexual edging. But what is…
Girls tribbing is the new 21st century phrase meaning tribadism. Ah yes, the ancient art of tribadism: girls scissoring and girls tribbing (rubbing their genitals together). Okay, it’s not an ancient art, we don’t know when it was invented, but it’s definitely not a myth. Understanding how to scissor a girl is essential to girl-on-girl…
You might have heard the saying “happy wife, happy life,” but it’s actually far more than that. For sure, if the lady in your life is happy, everything is easier. But, you need to make sure that your needs are also being met. Relationships are two-way deals and without both partners being happy with what’s…
Male orgasms are just as mysterious as female orgasms were to us not too long ago. Even now, we don’t know everything there is to know about the female orgasm, but we’ve come a long way. The same can be said of the male orgasm. So what is a male orgasm? What do male orgasms…
Female orgasms are a confusing beast. Some women have never had one, other women have them all the time. There are countless women that fall into the category in-between and have one sometimes but have to really focus to try and make it happen regularly. But, did you know that there are different types of…
So, you’re wondering how to make your guy cum fast. Though most of us wish we had all day to lay in bed with our lover, that’s typically not the case. Most of us are going to school or have jobs, and long days in bed end up being reserved for the weekends. What can…
Some people have a fear that’s been present as long as they can remember, from childhood onwards. Yet for some, a fear can develop over time, or perhaps simply crash into life and make itself very well known. Fears can be irrational, reasonable, or they can be things that we don’t really understand but know…
You’ve broken up and it’s time to say goodbye for good. Should you have breakup sex one last time, for old times’ sake? Here’s how to decide if it’s okay. You’ve broken up, but sometimes, that doesn’t stop you from staring at your hot ex, and imagining one last romp in the sack. Is it…
Let’s all get frisky for Christmas. The temperature has dropped and Mariah Carey songs are appearing with alarming frequency. It’s safe to say that the holiday season has arrived. If you’re considering getting a last minute gift for someone special, ‘tis the season to get frisky. I said it before and I’ll say it again:…
Everyone knows how important orgasms are for both men and women. When having sex with someone, you want them to orgasm. You want them to have the best sexual experience with you – it’s normal. But sometimes, orgasms aren’t that easy for women to achieve. A good way to encourage the big O to come…
You’d be forgiven for thinking everyone was using pandemic sex toys to masturbate more during the pandemic. Adult content subscription service OnlyFans went mainstream, and celebrities such as Gwyneth Paltrow, Dakota Johnson, Lily Allen and Cara Delevingne made stigma-breaking moves when they released their own sex toys (Goop) or partnered with existing companies (Maude, Womanizer…
When you hear “pillow princess” you might be thinking that this girl is living a life of luxury. And you’re right. If you’re a pillow princess, it’s a cushy ride. However, it’s also likely that no one wants to have sex with you. So what, exactly, is a pillow princess? If you think a pillow…
The female orgasm feels amazing. We all know that. Orgasms are the pinnacle of sensation if you’re lucky enough to have one. That much we also know. But, why do orgasms feel so good? What is it about them that makes our whole body feel full of bliss and pleasure? It seems pretty simple to…
1. Men make mistakes by not being honest about needs: “Be honest with yourself as to what you like and need, because men make mistakes. Was with a guy who NEEDED to finish by hand, but desperately didn’t want it to be that way. He would just keep going until it started to hurt me,…
Here’s why the brain is the most powerful sex organ. Chemicals and your brain One of the last things you’re thinking about during sex is probably chemicals and your brain—but they’re more involved than you think. Studies and MRIs suggest there are many remote areas of the brain that are active before, during, and after…
Many women find sex to be the deepest form of love and connection, and many women are very sexually oriented. While his orgasm may be quicker, hers is often more powerful and her incredible capacity for pleasure could include multiple orgasms. But the ways that women experience and express their sexuality are often very different…
Other than sexual wellbeing, there are few booming industries due to the Covid-19 pandemic. With the economic downturn looming and unemployment rates soaring, many of us have tightened our spending over the past few months. However, green shoots are appearing in one field: global sex technology. Lockdowns and social distancing have catalysed demand for erotica…
Doubtful men with big penises are underestimating their own penis size, highlighting the unrealistic size standards to which many penis-havers hold themselves Throughout the most formative years of his sex life, Reddit user IcelandicMechanic believed his penis was small. A 27-year-old IT consultant living in Aarhus, Denmark, IcelandicMechanic says the women he bedded in his…
Megan Markle’s orgasms are thunderous toe-curling events. That’s why a significant number of the stiff-upper-lip royals, especially the women, don’t like her. In my view, although those ‘pesky’ orgasms, Meghan Markle’s orgasms, are satisfying to her and relished by Prince Harry, those “little deaths” are scorned by the royal family: thus, Meghan is equally scorned….
Precisely at five minutes after seven each and every Friday evening, Mrs. Janet Wright was tied naked to a polished glass kitchen chair; this weekly ritual was adroitly, dutifully and perfectly performed by her husband Duncan. On Sunday morning Duncan freed her to fix breakfast. His mania, this ritualistic binding of his wife, was the…
Trying to shop for a hot-to-trot gal? Here is a great place to start. I have a thing for dog toys. No one ever questions why I’m buying a basket full of thick, flexy nylon bones, spiked balls that vibrate, or shock collars. One time, a cashier at the pet store said, “Same here. My…
