Men Make Mistakes
1. Men make mistakes by not being honest about needs:
"Be honest with yourself as to what you like and need, because men make mistakes. Was with a guy who NEEDED to finish by hand, but desperately didn't want it to be that way. He would just keep going until it started to hurt me, and then feel ashamed. I have no problem with you taking matters into your own hands while I help in other ways!"
2. Men make mistakes finding the hole:
"Not having patience to find the hole first, so you just keep jabbing all around me."
"When I tell them to keep going and I like it, and they start to speed up or change their tempo. I liked it the way it was before."
4. Men make mistakes by being too serious:
"Not being willing to laugh about things that go wrong."
5. Men make mistakes in communicating:
"Lack of communication. You could avoid all the mistakes listed here and be doing it completely wrong for your partner. Not all women want the same thing. Talk to your partner."
6. And stopping after we communicate:
"When we say 'I'm going to cum,' THAT DOES NOT MEAN STOP WHAT YOU'RE DOING!"
7. Speeding up:
"When we say 'don't stop,' DON'T START SPEEDING UP! Keep doing EXACTLY what you're doing."
8. Not cuddling:
"Lack of post-sex snuggle. I hate abrupt endings."
9. Men make mistakes by not cutting their nails:
"Please learn how to use your fingers. Cut your nails. Don't try to rub a hole in my clit. Don't poke. It hurts!"
10. Men make mistakes by being too rough:
"Treating the clit like they’re scrubbing a pan clean."
11. Men make mistakes by doing the head push:
"The head push. We will go down on you when we are ready and willing."
12. Not being clean:
"Not taking a minute to wash up first."
13. Men make mistakes by losing the rhythm:
"Lose rhythm! My GOD, how often it happened that I was on the edge, and he changed the rhythm and I just couldn't come anymore after that!"
14. Men make mistakes by dick-slapping:
"Don't slap my face with your dick. I don't know why guys do this, but stop."
15. Moving in a circle:
"When he is on top and starts moving his hips in a circle. Man, just go up and down!"
16. Skipping foreplay:
"The number of men who think good sex is them pumping away, without any kind of foreplay involved, then are surprised when we tell them we didn’t have an orgasm is troubling. Or the 'foreplay' involves jabbing at our nether regions with their fingers like they’re trying to stuff something back inside of a box."
17. And lastly, SPAS:
Pay attention (to their reactions).
Ask (if they like it or if they are OK).
Show (them what you like and invite them to do the same)."