Are you guilty of using sex as a weapon? You might not think so or even admit it. But withholding sex as a weapon to make your partner do something is actually a mean manipulation tactic, and it’s pretty toxic. Have you ever used sex to get your partner to do the dishes, clean the…
The marriage between twenty-nine year old social influencer Julia Zelg and Eileen de Freest (sixty-six) is going through challenges. Julia admitted that after four years of marriage the two have run into differences caused by the thirty-seven year age gap. The development has forced them to agree to start dating independent partners outside their relationship…
A reformed sex addict who slept with more than 700 men has started her own healing bootcamps where she teaches self-esteem and how to establish healthy, respectful relationships. Belinda Rygier, a former contestant on The Bachelor, said her wild lifestyle put a strain on her friendships because she would ditch her mates on nights out…
There are tons of reasons to add a little cannabis into your sex life, even if you’ve never considered touching the stuff otherwise. And if you’ve never considered letting cannabis touch you—no vaping, smoking, or ingesting required—you’ll also want to hear about the wide range of weed-infused topical products that might give your bedroom routine…
A recent sexual relationship study of 2,000 men and women, conducted by the UK dating website Illicit Encounters, looked at the top 10 things that men and women say they enjoy most about sex. It found that women listed experiencing greater bonding with their partner, reduced stress, and increased self-confidence. In contrast, men said what…
Talk about Sex therapist, Ruth Westheimer, once said, when asked about the possibility of a “sex recession”: “Here is an activity that is free, here … is an activity that makes people happy, and what’s the matter with all of you not to engage in it?” Like Dr. Ruth’s dozens of books, most literature on…
Dear How to Do It: My girlfriend and I are two women in our early-20s, and we’ve been together for nearly two years. Our relationship is mostly great, except for one thing: Over the past six months, the quality of our sex life has dropped dramatically. My girlfriend developed really bad tendonitis in both of…
A California woman has acquired a new “superpower” by learning to orgasm “without touch.” Catalina Lawsin, 46, made the raunchy revelation in an interview with South West News Service last week, saying practicing tantra several times a week has helped her harness the contactless kink. The sex therapist based in tony Santa Monica claimed climaxes…
A new documentary tells the story of the groundbreaking feminist sex researcher, Shere Hite. In September 2020, astute readers of The New York Times would have come across the obituary of Shere Hite, the feminist sex researcher. For two readers in particular, the obit sparked questions. One was director Nicole Newnham, who remembers discovering and…
Oral sex may be the biggest factor in the rise of throat cancer in the United States. Dr. Hisham Mehanna — a professor at the Institute of Cancer and Genomic Sciences at the University of Birmingham — said that there has been a “rapid increase” in oropharyngeal cancer, a type of throat cancer, in the…
What can make two healthy twenty-somethings turn to a sex therapist because, despite their desire, they have not had sex in months? What strange cosmic force impedes them from wearing out their mattresses? The answer is probably in the mind: in mistaken beliefs and ideologies that become chastity belts. Religions have demonized sex, pleasure and…
Multiple sex partners certainly do provide exposure to a variety of desires and passions. The enjoyment of physical behaviors and sexual practices is unique to every individual. What works for others might not work for you, what stimulates others might become a painful experience, and people tend to learn it as they grow. It is…
As we celebrate Women’s History Month, it turns out that women are having grey affairs and are more sexually liberated than ever before – and that, perhaps surprisingly, older women are leading the revolution. New York-based author and relationship expert Susan Shapiro Barash has been researching extramarital affairs for more than three decades, releasing a…
People stay in an unhappy marriage for a lot of reasons. You may be in one yourself. But when an unhappy marriage leads to cheating and infidelity, it’s time to lift the veil of denial and take a good hard look at what’s going on. It’s important to understand why people cheat before learning how…
My strap-on story. My husband and I have been married for more than 25 years and have had what I consider a great marriage overall. Couple of kids, a couple of cats, a house, etc. Nothing out of the ordinary. And that (nothing out of the ordinary) largely describes our sex life too. It’s been…
Considering female sex drive, most who are reading this are probably thinking that a high libido is something that only applies to men. However, women can have a high sex drive, too. Actually, women notice when they have a higher sex drive more often than men do because people generally think guys are supposed to…
Let’s talk about why wives cheat. We’ve all seen people cheating on social media and heard the gossip around the neighborhood — the stereotypical cheating husband, philandering with other women, while the emotionally neglected wife cries at home. Well, what happens when these roles are reversed? Is there a reason why some wives cheat on…
The cop cuckoldress Maegan Hall, age 26, is a former La Vergne, Tennessee, police officer, who was fired after being accused of having multiple sexual relationships with fellow officers, some while they were on duty, according to a salacious investigation released by city officials. The internal investigation report was released on December 28, 2022. It…
Perhaps your sex life is lacking spontaneous sex. Sex is great, we can all agree with that. And if you don’t, then you’re not having the right kind of sex. While planning your sex life may be the most realistic option for many of you out there, it’s even better when it’s spontaneous sex. When…
My virgin confession hurts. I’m A 32-Year-Old Female Virgin (but not by choice). How I ended up in this condition – alone. Missing out. A 32-year-old virgin. By accident. No grand pacts with deities were made. No overly sentimental illusions of saving myself for that one special person who would sweep me off my feet…
A polyamorous mother-of-two has revealed how she betrayed her husband of 28 years with another woman she met at work, and why she cheated on him for 12 months without him finding out. Danielle, from Sydney, had been with her partner and the father of her two children for nearly three decades when she met…
Here is our case for sex with socks on. We’re all for getting 100% naked and having a good time with someone you like. But if there’s a way to make the sex better by keeping just one article of clothing on, then we’d definitely refuse to take it off. This just so happens to…
If you want to learn how to flirt with a guy or pick up men with self-confidence, you may want to think outside the box. The thought of picking up a total stranger can cause sheer panic among some people. Having someone reject you is never fun, but if you have your eye on someone,…
Women like me who have been cheated on, get a shiver of pain down our spines even years after the affair, the betrayal. The lies, the little clues to his infidelity we only ever saw looking back, the suspicion, the gaslighting, the shame, but most of all the self-recrimination. Yes, the eternal questions — how…
If it seems that you are more like roommates than lovers you can start enjoying sex again simply by following some easy steps. When you are married or coupled, over time it is easy for the relationship to become one of utility instead of sensuality, magic and love. Each person has their part in the…
On average, women are less interested in sex than men. This is a consistent finding in psychology. Women express lower sexual desire, want fewer lifetime sex partners, and are less open to casual sex compared to men. The reason for this gender difference in sexuality constitutes one of the great debates in psychology. Nature Versus…
Was I wrong to use my former affair partner as a yardstick? At the time of this post, I’ve been on 57 first dates. Some of the guys I met for second and third dates. Some I dated for several months. With a few, we parted as friends, but over time the relationships dwindled. Needless…
They say the key to a man’s heart is through his stomach but for women, it’s through Making a Woman Feel Special – making HER, the one, feel special. That’s really the main thing you have to remember with girls. If you want her to like you, make her feel unique and special to you…
Michelle’s affair diary reveals her deepest feelings. Michelle spends most of her days getting her toddler ready for daycare, cooking and cleaning for her child and husband, and working from home. On special days, she opens her front door to a man she met on Ashley Madison, and they have sex. Michelle has secretly revealed…
Love triangles are complicated dating scenarios where there’s love in the air, but there are more than two people secretly involved. When love is mutual and shared between two people, everything is perfect, simple, and easy. BUT …. Have you ever been in love with someone who’s already in love with someone else? Or are…
Female orgasms are a confusing beast. Some women have never had one, other women have them all the time. There are countless women that fall into the category in-between and have one sometimes but have to really focus to try and make it happen regularly. But, did you know that there are different types of…
“I’m Bisexual and Non-monogamous.” confessed Ruby Rare @_rubyrare. “I didn’t come out to myself, or anyone else, until I was in my early 20s. I am queer and always have been queer but I was raised in a world that assumed my heterosexuality, so it took a lot of time to think of myself as…
Waiting for sex is a big deal for some, but not so much so for others. And you are 100% entitled to your opinions and feelings. As long as you’re being safe, you do you. Many people wonder how long you should be waiting for sex and it’s a long-debated subject. The truth? It’s a…
So, you’re wondering how to make your guy cum fast. Though most of us wish we had all day to lay in bed with our lover, that’s typically not the case. Most of us are going to school or have jobs, and long days in bed end up being reserved for the weekends. What can…
Some people have a fear that’s been present as long as they can remember, from childhood onwards. Yet for some, a fear can develop over time, or perhaps simply crash into life and make itself very well known. Fears can be irrational, reasonable, or they can be things that we don’t really understand but know…
Aphrodisiacs can provide a boost if you ever feel like you’re expected to want to have sex on demand? As though you’re supposed to have a high sex drive and be ready to go as soon as someone suggests it? The reality of life is rather different. Stress, tiredness, and simply not being in the…
You’ve broken up and it’s time to say goodbye for good. Should you have breakup sex one last time, for old times’ sake? Here’s how to decide if it’s okay. You’ve broken up, but sometimes, that doesn’t stop you from staring at your hot ex, and imagining one last romp in the sack. Is it…
Let’s all get frisky for Christmas. The temperature has dropped and Mariah Carey songs are appearing with alarming frequency. It’s safe to say that the holiday season has arrived. If you’re considering getting a last minute gift for someone special, ‘tis the season to get frisky. I said it before and I’ll say it again:…
Whether it’s the first time you ever have sex, the first time with someone new, or the millionth time, learning how to prepare for sex in the right way gets you in the best frame of mind. At the end of the day, sex is supposed to be enjoyed. Sure, it’s nice to be spontaneous…
Everyone knows how important orgasms are for both men and women. When having sex with someone, you want them to orgasm. You want them to have the best sexual experience with you – it’s normal. But sometimes, orgasms aren’t that easy for women to achieve. A good way to encourage the big O to come…
You’d be forgiven for thinking everyone was using pandemic sex toys to masturbate more during the pandemic. Adult content subscription service OnlyFans went mainstream, and celebrities such as Gwyneth Paltrow, Dakota Johnson, Lily Allen and Cara Delevingne made stigma-breaking moves when they released their own sex toys (Goop) or partnered with existing companies (Maude, Womanizer…
When you hear “pillow princess” you might be thinking that this girl is living a life of luxury. And you’re right. If you’re a pillow princess, it’s a cushy ride. However, it’s also likely that no one wants to have sex with you. So what, exactly, is a pillow princess? If you think a pillow…
Sex with a narcissist enlightened me. It’s far too easy to throw around labels these days for any little problem. For instance, we are quick to label men as narcissists when they show a little selfishness. The problem? Narcissism isn’t something to joke about. It’s not a word to call someone just because they don’t…
Although the majority of swinging will end up involving lovemaking and getting frisky with each other’s partners, some swinging guidelines suggest that it isn’t all about fresh flesh. Swinging is about building up the atmosphere of warmth and belonging. Whether you are at a party with another couple or with another person for a threesome,…
Celibacy is on the rise.
Differences in sexual desire can be highly problematic. Romantic relationships are distinguished from all others in that they are fundamentally sexual in nature. Furthermore, the vast majority of people expect their intimate relationship to be sexually exclusive. And yet, people differ widely in terms of how much sex they want, so it’s not surprising that…
In the year before I split up with my ex-partner, several things changed. I started to spend more time with new friends, stay out later on weekends and began treating myself to fancy pedicures on a bi-weekly basis. Most importantly, I stopped writing about my then-partner. Our relationship was already on the rocks and I…
Confessing why I cheated. First things first: I’m an unscrupulous asshole. I went against my marriage vows. Repeatedly. The scarlet letter burned in my soul reminds me that I’m a s**tty person who did something I deem unforgivable. I cheated. I have no excuse for my behaviour. As an adult, we make choices. No one…
