Kinky Girls
If you’re a guy who has no idea what to do with kinky girls and you’ve just met one you really like, don’t worry. We have some ideas to help you get introduced into the realm of kinkiness, so you can explore and enjoy together.
1. With a kinky girl use restraints
If you want to try giving up control to your partner by allowing her to surprise you with what she’s going to do next, restraints are the way forward.
Restraints essentially come in different levels. In the beginning, we recommend using light restraints, nothing too serious for testing out the boundaries of what you both like.
You can bring in handcuffs, rope, shackles – kinky girls will have no problem cuffing their man to the bed and making him moan in delight.
2. Explore spankings with kinky girls
Many women love being spanked, well, not to the point where they’re bleeding. Okay, some do. But if the woman asks to be spanked, the man should start at a gentle level and increase it slowly. Guys, don’t be scared to grab her ass and spank her. Kinky girls usually let their man know that they want to be spanked, and also let him know how hard to go. Of course, it might be that she wants to spank you – how do you feel about that?
3. With a kinky girl bring out the toys
Kinky girls love experimenting with sex toys, and you totally should try as many toys as you like. And as a kinky girl, she’ll probably already have a couple of toys such as dildos, vibrators, strap-ons, whips, anal beads, butt plugs, collars, the list goes on and on.
4. Use your teeth with a kinky girl
She’s not a steak, but she might like being nibbled on. Remember to nibble. She won’t want bruises all over her face from the guy eating her like it’s his last supper.
If you bite your girl, you’ll most certainly get her aroused and chase after you for more. But, be careful not to leave a mark – especially as many people hate hickeys since they tend to make questions arise when you go to work or out and about the next day!
5. Choking might turn on a kinky girl
Choking is something that kinky girls often like. Of course, that doesn’t mean you really squeeze her neck, but the feeling of a hand on her neck might turn her on.
If she asks you to do this, you want to make sure you’re not choking her too hard unless she wants your grip to be firmer. If she’s thrashing around and grabbing you… Perhaps ease up on your grip, let’s not make her unconscious.
But usually, kinky girls love being choked – it’s not as taboo as it sounds, but it definitely involves a lot of trust between the couple.
6. Think about wrestling with a kinky girl
There’s something very arousing about play fighting with your partner. You’re pulling and pushing them, they’re pulling and pushing you, flipping you over, pinning you down as you’re struggling to break free.
It’s a great way to get into the mood and some slightly aggressive foreplay. Then you can incorporate choking, spitting, and punishing, if you both want to, of course.
7. Sensory deprivation
This is all about blocking out one of your main five senses, which will heighten your other senses and increase arousal.
You can be blindfolded or blindfold her, use earplugs to block out the sound, wear gloves to block off touch, etc. You can start easy and then increase the blocking of multiple senses. It’s pretty hot and arousing.
8. Explore master/slave interactions with a kinky girl
Master/slave is basically when one person is dominant and the other is submissive. The slave will adhere to all the commands of the master. These commands usually start gently, such as to worship the master’s body, kiss their feet, and show them your ass.
Then they can increase in kinkiness, for example, striptease for master, stick your ass in the air, crawl on master, etc. Of course, before doing this, you’ll need to sit down with your partner and create rules and boundaries.
9. Public sex might appeal to a kinky girl
Have sex at the drive-in theater or while waiting in the doctor’s office – that’s kinky. The fact that not only are you doing it in a public place but you also have a very high chance of being caught is what makes it exciting.
If you want to be caught, you’re already kinky. So, why not just go the extra step and try it out?
Just make sure that you don’t go out of your way to get caught because that could lead to an extremely embarrassing encounter and possible arrest in some cases!
10. Use gags for a kinky girl
No, not the funny kind. You’ve probably heard of gagging thanks to 50 Shades of Grey, and aside from this film, it’s actually very popular amongst kinky girls.
Gagging is kind of like sensory deprivation because it prevents you from speaking. You’ll definitely need to have some sort of safety word/action and agree to the boundaries of how far you’ll go while gagging or being gagged.
11. Add another one to the mix for a kinky girl
Have a threesome. Just find someone that you both are attracted to but aren’t friends with and have a threesome. It’ll be an experience you won’t forget.
It’s pretty kinky and also a lot of fun. Not everyone is into this idea and some people try it and vow never to do it again, but you could be amongst the many who really love it!
12. Who doesn’t like food?
Have you seen the scene in 9 ½ Weeks with Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger? Okay, well, if not, we don’t want to spoil anything, but it involves a fridge and sex – so, watch it. Don’t underestimate the power of food.
Honey, whipped cream, strawberries, chocolate – you can basically hit up all the food groups. Kinky girls are more than willing to play with food – licking honey or chocolate off of the man’s chest, chewing a strawberry out of his mouth, or licking whipped cream off of the inner thigh.
13. For a kinky girl try anal sex
Many women are nervous to try anal sex because of the negative connotation around the subject. However, kinky girls already know everything about anal sex and are more than willing to give it a try.
14. Pegging might appeal to a kinky girl
It might also be that she wants to try pegging, basically anal sex but she dons a strapon and goes to town on your ass. Some guys are intrigued, others are horrified. It’s up to you how you feel about it, but do bear in mind that the anal orgasm can be pretty amazing for a man.
15. With a kinky girl watch porn together
Watching porn is incredibly arousing, so why not watch porn with your partner? Have you seen some of the things they do on film?
So when you’re with a kinky girl, don’t be scared to ask if she wants to watch porn with you – she probably does.
16. For a kinky girl find a new place to cum
Yes, that’s right, you just read that. We don’t know what type of contraception you’re using *please use some*, but the guy doesn’t have to cum in a tissue or in a condom if there’s a kinky girl in the room.
The guy can try out – consensually, of course – new places on her body to cum. There’s probably someplace that really turns her on. For some kinky girls, it’s the face, over her breasts, or in/on her ass. It depends on whether she thinks it’s a good way to finish off with a bang.
17. Roleplay for a kinky girl
Sitting at the bar and a mysterious stranger sits beside you, asking what your name is. Sure, it may be your kinky girl, but for now, it’s a Russian girl here for one night on a business trip. She slips you a napkin with her room number on it.
No, that’s not the opening to some Hollywood film. That, my friend, is your Friday night. If there’s a kinky girl in the room, she’ll have no problem developing some storyline that’ll get everyone in character.
This is a great opportunity to have sex with someone *completely new* but still the same person deep within.
18. For a kinky girl get it on film
Film you and your partner having sex, with consent, of course. It won’t end up online if you trust your partner, but it’s a fun way to get turned on. It’s interesting and sexy to see what you look like when you’re having sex. This will totally turn on kinky girls.
19. Group sex might intrigue a kinky girl
If you’re thinking about having a threesome or already tried it, why not throw another person into the mix? Group sex is not only kinky, but it’s a great way to experiment and experience sex with other people while still having sex with your partner.
If you’re not the kinky one in the relationship, you may be a little hesitant to give it a try. However, sit down and talk to your kinkier half and she’ll help you through it.
20. For a kinky girl bring on the pee
Okay, most people probably squirmed in their seats reading this one, but many people are into the golden shower. It’s definitely best to discuss this one before having sex.
Kinky girls will probably be down for it, but, it may come as a shock when all of a sudden the guy is peeing on her or vice versa. Mention this before sex and just test the waters – oh, that was a good pun.
Always use a safe word with a Kinky Girl
When you’re with kinky girls and they’re suggesting all sorts of fun stuff to try, it’s important to settle on a safe word beforehand. That means if either of you feels overwhelmed, uncomfortable, or simply wants to stop, you can say the word and everything quickly ends.
The idea is that you can explore kink safely with the knowledge that if it becomes too much, you just say the word and you’re golden. It’s a reassuring thing and allows you to totally throw yourself into kinky fun as a result.
Kinky women are not meant to be tamed, they have to let their energy out! So, try out these various activities if you’re dating a kinky girl.
